I want a single feed that I can customize and preferably weight based on how important I think something is.
The perfect solution would support Lemmy, RSS, Mastodon and maybe even Bluesky. And would allow me to increase the visibility of certain content. For instance a specific RSS feed
Both Mastodon and Lemmy provide RSS feeds. Plug them into any RSS reader, and you are done.
https://lifehacker.com/tech/bluesky-and-mastodon-rss-feed
https://join-lemmy.org/docs/contributors/04-api.html#rssatom-feeds