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  • poszod@lemmy.worldto> Greentext@lemmy.mlAnon asks what's wrong with himself
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    8 months ago

    When I was much younger this was an issue because I’d pursue people out of loneliness, not because they were actually a good match. After we’d be together for a few weeks, the loneliness would go away, and then I’d realise that I didn’t like them to begin with. Awful to do that to other people, I know.

    Worked on it through therapy and overcame this behaviour.


  • I do! 1 slack only though.

    To be fair, this only happened twice. I have friends who consistently take days to reply, that’s totally fine with me. But if I send a message, couple weeks go by without a reply or the person initiating conversation, and then it happens again, that means that they don’t care about talking to me, which’s 100% their right 🤷‍♂️

    If someone is going through a hard time, dealing with depression and whatnot, that’s different, but also the exception.