I’m not a fan of this meme, it seems too much to imply that a person who doesn’t take HRT or hasn’t taken HRT is still cis because of it, transmedicalism is not cool.

Understandable, I meant it as a way to stand up for trans people who are non-op or pre-op (can’t afford surgery or can’t get it at all) and being discriminated against based on their genitals.

Also my comment was directed towards a transphobic shithead who was spouting transphobia apologia saying that we shouldn’t fight back against transphobes because “they’re people too”.

Transfem tomboy power 😎🏳️‍⚧️💪

It’s kind of a joke post but also kind of not, since I aspire to be a very butch, very Masc tomboy transfem. I’m not concerned if I pass enough for people’s tastes, I just want to be happy and be myself, my true self.

Good suggestion, I’ll probably get proper breast pads or inserts though. I’ve got the money for it.

been refining that for about a year now to reasonable success till i start hrt

What? You’ve been waiting more than a year for HRT 😔😭?!? I don’t want to wait a whole year to do it, especially since it might get harder to do it in the future.

Uh yeah, British transphobes 😅

That’s good to know. I guess I can still eat like that but just work out more so I stay in shape and don’t lose too much muscle. Also glad to hear that muscle loss isn’t immediate or complete, still not thrilled about losing any. I know that for some trans girls it’s something they hate and want gone but personally I want to be a very big and muscular girl since I’m going for the butch tomboy look, and also it’s nice to be strong.

I guess it’s good that I don’t have biochemical dysphoria, at least not that I know of, my dysphoria comes mainly from my lack of breasts.

I think a padded bra or inserts would probably help me. I don’t think eating more food to get fat will help me much when I’m on Estrogen cuz I work out a lot now, and I’ll be doing it more then so I don’t lose muscle mass as much, that’s one thing I don’t really want to happen when I’m on E.

Why do some people push back against this sentiment? You do realize that transphobes are awful people that don’t need or deserve defending right? Next I’m going to hear people opposed to punching Nazis?

That’s good to know, I’ll make sure to keep that in mind when I start HRT

I’ll look into getting some of those and trying to see if it looks good and/or makes me feel better. Thank you for the suggestion.

Oh thank you, I’ll definitely look into getting myself some of those. Will make sure to get a high quality one too. I imagine I’ll be wearing it almost all the time until I can grow my own natural ones.

Any suggestions of where I should look to buy them? Could I just look on Amazon or is there a specific brand or site I should be aware of?

She absolutely would 🩷 🏳️‍⚧️ 💪

That way works too, but I’d put nails in the bat and maybe wrap it with barbed wire too. A simple clean bat is too good for them.

Hell yeah, best way to cure transphobia!

I agree, even tho I may be biased.

I noticed I wasn’t cis because I got a rush of happiness/euphoria from being called she/her by my friend after asking, and because recently I had started feeling discomfort/dysphoria towards my chest, it felt empty like something was missing and I realized it’s because I lack breasts and I wish I had them, it makes me sad that my chest is so flat.

I do not see the problem necessarily with promoting OF etc as sex workers do have to make money and that is their job, however the less savory people who are attracted by the types of porn I listed above do often have problematic views, so agree with you there.

It would be no different than allowing people to post ads here on Lemmy for Pepsi, Liberty Mutual, and HeGetsUs. If someone made ad accounts to post that shit you’d ban them as an admin, why is OF spam any different to you?

I second that one, lemmynsfw is something else entirely. Not just that it’s porn but porn instances attract less savory people, especially bots and OF promoters (which are almost the same thing) so probably would be a good idea to axe them for instance health.

We don’t want to cut off our community from folks on these instances but if they’re causing a lot of trouble- we can certainly consider it

If that’s the case and there is a desire to have community reach maybe older defederations should be re-evaluated. But I wasn’t under the impression that it mattered much compared to safety of minority users and security of the instance.