• pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    2 days ago

    I’ve said it many times before and I’ll say it again, gender relations here are worse than they were on reddit when I stopped using it.

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      2 days ago

      It’s a more niche “back room” kind of forum, so there are less casual browsers and more technerds here, which makes it predominantly male for a lot of reasons that require a whole other discussion to analyse, but it’s exactly like when reddit was a niche “back room” website gaining popularity.

      Lets not forget when reddit started, it was absolute chaos, some of the very worst communities imaginable where at home there, and the userbase RAGED every time some pedo or hate sub got purged. But they did get purged, and it became welcoming for a more diverse group of users to participate in. (Until the bot nation attacked)

    • KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      2 days ago

      i wonder if it’s not just worse on lemmy, but gotten worse over time, with the manosphere shit and all it’s relevant problems, neither feminism nor the manosphere, or traditional male gender role has really addressed this issue comprehensively, and we’re starting to see pushback from this issue in real life now, men are enrolling into college less than women, they do worse in most environments, and also are generally worse when it comes to mental health.

      I wonder if we just need like a dedicated “social issues space” where people can talk about this stuff.

    • Cryophilia@lemmy.world
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      I mean there’s like 3 women on lemmy, and 2 of em are trans. I don’t think there really ARE any gender relations here.