I’m pretty sure im bi and have identified as bi but am starting to question if im actually bi. Not really sure how I can prove that I’m actually bi to myself

  • Bicyclejohn@lemmy.mlOPEnglish
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    1 year ago

    I just feel like I’m not good enough. Is it wrong to look at that stuff while in a relationship? I don’t want to hurt him

    • narshee@iusearchlinux.fyiEnglish
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      1 year ago

      Have you two ever discussed mastubation and porn? I am very much not qualified to talk about relationships. My thoughts about it would be that there is nothing to be hurt by and that it’s normal to have sexual disires

      • Bicyclejohn@lemmy.mlOPEnglish
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        1 year ago

        Regarding porn Yes we have but before we made things offical. I should put more effort into quitting tho

        As for mastrubation we would both do it together. Its a long distance thing so that’s what we would do.

        • narshee@iusearchlinux.fyiEnglish
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          1 year ago

          If you think it’s too unhealthy try to find other things to do instead. You might wanna do that anyway. Coping is healthy to a degree, but if you can’t bear it, I would recommend talking to someone who’s a professional or has bright views on things. I don’t ever do that either, but it really helps