i see no problem in people seeing my as a pussy, something like eating faster takes so little effort and shes not taking anything from me. its not like im trying to assert my dominance as someone big that wont be bossed around. i am happy as the way i am and something so small wont come close to touching my ego.

i know i might be part of the problem encouraging this behaviour but i aint got time for that. hanlon’s razor: never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity