• girlfreddy@mastodon.social
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    1 year ago

    @Showroom7561 @grte

    Number 1, shelters are extremely dangerous places for some people, ie: trans

    Number 2, you can’t take all the stuff you’ve gathered into a shelter with you … so it all gets stolen.

    Number 3, you can’t take pets with you into shelters.

    Number 4, people who’ve been previously assaulted don’t want to put themselves in danger again.

    Number 5, children often aren’t allowed in adult shelters, so the shelter will call social services and children get taken away.

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      1 year ago

      I’m not asking for reasons why someone would decline a shelter bed (I have experience through a close family member), but whether beds are available or not.

      The news report seems to contradict the outreach workers.

      That said, numbers 1-5 can also apply (often much worse) when you’re homeless and not in a shelter, plus you have a much higher chance of drug abuse or being trafficked, especially if you’re underage.

      At the very least, shelters offer services for those who want to get off the street. Quite a few favour women (i.e. men are not allowed) and there are shelters specifically for families available throughout the GTA.

      Living on the street is risky and offers no chance to get off the street. At the very least, a shelter is a better situation, or potentially an opportunity to get life back on track.

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        1 year ago

        @Showroom7561

        What news reports are contradicting shelter workers?

        And I’ve lived on the streets so am aware of the dangers there and in shelters. I’ve also been a social worker. What expertise do you have in the field?

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          What news reports are contradicting shelter workers?

          One says that no beds are available… while outreach workers are out offering beds. That’s a contradiction, is it not?

          And I’ve lived on the streets so am aware of the dangers there and in shelters.

          So we can agree that the streets come with an *additional * set of risks with little to no benefit staying there, especially if you are a woman or a minor or an addict or have mental health issues.

          Shelters are the better option in a less-than-ideal situation.

          I’ve also been a social worker.

          I’m glad to hear that. Did you find that most people got off the streets by rejecting services and refusing to go into a shelter, or was there another path that avoided these resources which helped more?

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              But shelters offer more safety and resources than the streets. Especially ones that block abusive partners/pimps from entering.

              Some (most?) offer meals, showers, leisure, connection to government resources, etc. I only have experience with the shelters in Durham Region, so maybe the ones in Toronto are different, but I can’t see them being worse than the streets.

              There’s no silver bullet solution to the problem, unfortunately. There are only steps towards better than now.

              I would personally love to see at least one abandoned mall converted into a shelter complex. With hundreds of units able to house dozens of people each, it would at least consolidate resources under one roof to make things safer and more manageable, vs dozens of separate shelters all needing their own overhead to be covered.

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        You’re not asking for the reasons because you don’t want to know the reasons, you just want a clean simple way to convince yourself you have no moral duty to others. Just please silently don’t give a fuck.

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          Great, you again. True to the username, eh?

          You don’t know a single thing about me. Where I volunteer, who I donate to, who I’ve opened my home to, who I stop to talk to, or which groups I give food/clothing/supplies to.

          I wanted to know why the news report says that people are being turned down “because there are no beds available”, while at the same time outreach workers are offering beds. I asked out of concern because if people are in need of shelter, they aren’t being connected to the right ones (with available beds).

          If you don’t understand the question, there’s no need to make some high-horse comment to make yourself feel better by putting others down.